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Veena Malik opens up about her relationship with Asif, his family, his rash behaviour and finally being able to win people’s faith

On Asif being physically violent He has physically attacked me, and that too not once, but several times. If he can do it to me, I’m sure he can do it to anyone. He would get drunk and thrash me. There have been occasions when the next morning, oblivious of everything, he would ask, ‘Maine lagaya kya yeh zakhm?’ You should speak to my makeup artiste and he will tell you how he would conceal all the bruises and scratches. I remember seeing him once thrashing the girl he was dating, before he met me. Usne baalon se uss ladki ko pakda aur maara. He even called her a prostitute. He told me, the girl was blackmailing him for using her. He has slapped me for no reason in front of his friends. Once, I asked him why he did it, he told me, ‘I slapped you because you were speaking to another guy. How dare you do that?’ On another occasion, he hit me hard when the food that I had prepared for his friends wasn’t sufficient. I told him, ‘Sirf aadha ghanta do, main aur khaana bana deti hoon’. He didn’t listen to what I said and slapped me instead.
On Asif’s wife Unke bare mein main baat nahin karna chahti. It wouldn’t be nice to comment on her life. While Veena refuses to comment on Asif’s marital life, a source close to her tells us that Asif would physically attack his wife. “During the first six months, they had a smooth relationship, but later things began to get worse. Anyone who is close to Asif’s wife would feel sorry for her. She lived a disturbed life. In fact, before she got married, she called up Veena, who assured her that she would never create any problems for the couple or make her feel insecure,” said the source.

On Asif’s family Asif has four siblings – three sisters and a brother, and Asif is the youngest of them all. Since I was close to Asif and knew his family well, I was aware that the bond he shared with his family was not normal. His family never approved of his actions and aggressive behaviour. His drinking habit and participation in unscrupulous activities were the key reason why his family maintained a distance from him. His family was highly upset when he was detained in Dubai for carrying drugs, when he got embroiled in IPL doping case and when he cheated on me.

Asif’s family has always been considerate and respectful towards me. In fact, when Asif and I parted ways, his family was shocked. They were not happy with the decision, kyunki woh jante the ki main Asif ke kitne close thi. Jab aap kisi se close hotein hain toh unki baton ka bahut impact rehta hai. His family knew that Asif would only listen to me. The main reason why Asif was so negative in life was because of the distance between him and his family. We were together for at least two years, aur iss dauran sirf teen martaba unki ammi aayi unse milne, woh bhi sirf do ghante ke liye. Unki behne bhi bahut kam Asif se mili. His brother never came to meet him. When I asked his friend if anyone came to see him in court, I was told that not even a single member from his family was present. Unki biwi bhi nahin aayi thi. So you can understand how strained the relationships were. But only he is responsible for all this. Maine unko kaafi bardasht kiya hai, iss liye jaanti hoon.

On people trusting her I know that people had criticised me for what I had said, but now that the truth is out, people trust me a lot more. Not that it matters to me much, but yes I’m happy that now they know I was right. Those who are saying that I was also involved in the scandal should think – had that been true, I would have been held culpable and strict actions would have been taken against me.

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